A thousand times this. I feel exactly the same way about a lot of "anti-racist" activism. Which is why I criticise that too.

The activists are the problem. Not the people. The trans people I've met in real life are almost exclusively just regular people trying to live their lives without people bothering them.

It's the activists demanding to abolish the police or claiming that all white people are racist or saying that being gay is transphobic or that there's no reason for worrying about performing double mastectomies on children who harm the cause instead of helping it.