Exactly. And yeah, I've heard lots of sketchy stories about interactions between young men and older women. I could tell a few myself.

I mean, there is a difference. And the sheer volume of these sketchy interactions is obviously different. But as long as there's this idea that young men's lives are nothing but a utopia of privilege and patriarchy, some of them, especially those who are towards the bottom of the pecking order, will seek understanding and community from men like Tate.