Exactly, I've often said that when you get right down to it, gender "identity" is just personality viewed through the lens of gender stereotypes.
I'm absolutely fascinated by people who can visualise the world. As I said, I was so amazed to discover that some people really could picture things their minds! No cartoon imagery for me! 😁
But absolutely. The beauty of the humanity is that our brains all work so differently! I wish we were better at celebrating and sharing those differences.