Hi Sean! This is such an overlooked point nowadays. We’re in such a rush to label people who hurt us “toxic” or “narcissistic” that we’ve stopped considering that maybe we weren’t perfect either.

Of course, avoiding any need for self-examination is exactly why we’re tempted to dehumanise people in this way. Great article.

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