“How can I better care for you?” leaves space for your Black friend to discuss ways that you could maybe serve them and care for them. Some people might just want you to listen to them while others might want you to send them a meal w…
Holy crap are you serious?! I very much appreciate my friends of any colour asking me how I am. And I neither expect, nor want them to serve me as they try to navigate their own, COVID complicated lives.
Come on now, I’m sure this gives an unfair impression of you, but it comes off as enormously narcissistic.