I actually calculated this a while ago for a different article. So I'll just paste it here:

"In 2021, there were 144,300 reported sexual assaults in the United States. Let’s assume that 100% of these attacks were committed by men (the true figure is ~92%, I think, so close enough).

According to RAINN, 2/3 of sexual assaults go unreported, so we’ll triple our 144,300 figure and round up to 450,000. Even if we assume that each of those assaults was carried out by a different one of the 164 million males in the United States (i.e. no repeat offenders), we find that around 0.27% of males commit all sexual assaults.

Even if we triple that to eliminate toddlers and octogenarians, we arrive at around 1%."

So it turns out your 99% figure is correct, just the opposite way around.

As you can see, I've been pretty generous in my calculations here to arrive at the highest figure possible. But let's say I'm still out by a factor of 5. Or even 10. Again, that's still 90% of men who don't hurt women. Why do you (and a depressing number of other women) insist on talking about "men" and then only talking about this minority?

I agree that women need reproductive rights (although plenty of women don’t). I even wrote an article about it. I agree that we need more women in leadership positions. I don't think most men disagree with that. I'm not arguing with any position you might take when it comes to the importance of supporting and empowering women. You're the one arguing with me with regards to the need to support and empathise with men.

Of course it's depressing that women are abused. It's depressing when women or men are marginalised in any way. And it's especially depressing when I come across somebody, male or female, who is only capable of caring about one of these.