I feel like you're arguing with somebody else.
Where have I said anything which disputes this? There's a whole paragraph about how Trump's "America First" is basically exactly what you're describing.
To bring you back to the point which you first got on my case for and still haven't responded to, Trump doesn't ask his followers to be better, whereas the left spends far more time telling his supporters how they're racists and religious fundamentalists than trying to listen and understand and have good faith conversations.
Again, you seem to be a perfect example of this. As long as this attitude prevails, none of us will be able to have conversations which move things towards understanding each other better.
If you're happy being the rude internet tough guy that's up to you, but if we're ever going to make any progress, some of us have to be the adults in the room.