I just don't understand how you can write things like this.Most black people can't answer yes to all of these! If you create an impossible standard and then consider everyone who fails to live up to it a racist, you'll believe that the world is full of racists. But I mean seriously, do you hold yourself to this standard on other issues?
Are you fighting even a tenth as hard against horrors like female genital mutilatiion or genocide or child soldiers as you demand white people fight for black peole here? Does the fact that you're not fighting these injustices mean that you support them? Does framing white people who aren't "willing to die for us" as the enemy really move us forward?
Yes, saying "I have a black firiend" is an asinine defence against an accusation of racism. But defining people who don't seek out movies by black directors or whose friends don't have enough black friends as racist, is an asinine definition of racism.