No, I didn't say that. I said the question of how to "treat abortion with the seriousness it deserves and protect the rights and freedoms of women" is up in the air again. And it's up in the air because Roe seems very likely to be overturned. Not because of my personal feelings one way or the other.
I'm perfectly happy to stay out of that debate. As we've agreed, the male perspective isn't really that relevant (although I'm invested in the outcome of lots of issues that don't directly affect me. Compassion is not limited to areas of self-interest). But regardless, you will find women who aren't handmaidens brainwashed by the patriarchy, some of whom aren't even arguing from a religious standpoint, who firmly believe that elective abortion should be illegal from day 0.
Opposing abortion isn't some male conspiracy. We don't all get together and figure out ways to keep women down. It's worth pointing out that Roe, despite it's flaws, was ruled by 7 men. Most of us are just as horrified by rape and honour killings and FGM as you are. Male vs female is a simplistic and I think inaccurate lens through which to view this.