Not sure if I'm parsing this correctly. Did you mean:

"unfortunately, equality is seen as special treatment?"

There are definitely people who think this way. I'm not beginning to deny that. But I'm talking about individual relationship here, not institutional ones. Conflating the two means that some black people are constantly framing themselves as inferior to white people, which is psychologically cancerous. And, obviously, untrue.

As I said, it's hard to argue that a man chasing a woman down the street with his camera, doxxing her and getting her fired because she said something that was basically nothing, isn't receiving special treatment.

And yet for some reason, there are man people genuinely looking at him as the "victim" in all of this. As I said, it's a mystery how anybody doesn't see this as incredibly patronising.