Obviously we move in different circles, but I don't know and have never heard of (until now I guess) a single black guy for whom this is true. Even less, one who would vote for a man they didn't already want to be President for other reasons, entirely so that a woman didn't get into power.

I'm not denying those men exist somewhere, but I strongly suspect that they're a statistically insignificant percentage of the voting population.

There's an overarching assumption in progressive circles that whenever somebody does something they disagree with, the reasoning behind it is hatred. I think that's always a huge oversimplification of people's reasoning.