Sure, but that's your interpretation. And I don't agree. I'm not saying you're wrong, I'm saying it's very hard to claim with any certainty that either of us is right.
But what I hope we can say, is that spending the next few hours actively trying to ruin.the woman's life is not the move.
As I say in the article, "stay in the hood" would be more clear cut, but even then, it's hard for me to generate any outrage about it. "Stay in your hood" is just such a worthless thing to say. Taking offence requires that we mind-read about what she "really" meant to say.
We wouldn't even be tempted to do this if a black woman said this to a white man. Which is where my problem really lies. The double standard just reeks of the idea that black people are weaklings who need special protection.