Thanks so much for this. It's fascinating. From the article:
"...only ‘long-haired women who date other long-haired women’ are considered lesbians – and they often experience discrimination as a result. ‘People don’t call me a lesbian. There used to be a lot of negativity around that word. Nowadays, I think it’s OK to be a lesbian, but I’d still be annoyed if somebody called me that."
It's very interesting how there's often so much homophobia and gender stereotypes are attached to these ideas.