That's not true. Don't try to speak for "whites". If it was true for you, then guess what; you were already racist.

You haven't addressed that by reading a book or noticing that you have white skin. And black people don't need you to "care". Most black people just want you to stop treating us like we're any different to anybody else. Some, who have been systemically disadvantaged by racism, want attention paid to their plight instad of focused on microagressions in Starbucks and millionaire hustlers like DiAngelo.

Though seeing as we're talking about White Fragility, consider that this reply is an absolutely perfect example of it in its true from. A black person says something you don't like, that conflicts with the narrative you're comfortable with, and look at how quickly all that "enlightenment" vanishes. Interesting. It's almost as if all the "wisdom" you gained from reading DiAngelo is bullshit.🤔