The point i'm making is that you need to justify the claim that video games normalise or male kids less sensitive to these things.

If we agree that these problems all existed long before video games, what evidence do you have for the assertion that video games are making us numb to them?

In fact, given that we seem to be becoming sensitive to the point of hysteria, I think there's good evidence to suggest that young people are becoming less numb to misogyny and inequality in the video game era.