😁 This is a lovely story.

Only what you've described is human beings, not white people. Do you think that black people are incapable of these traits? Do you think that many wealthy black people aren't gulty of these traits, even towards other black people? If you ask a poor, lower class white man who is struggling to feed his family to "own up to his whiteness" what are you actually asking him to do?

I'm not arguing that white privilege doesn't exist, it does. It exists regardless of individual wealth. But conflating the ills of selfishness and tribalism with whiteness doesn't serve anybody.