Why must you couch things in these terms? If your voice was invalid to me, why would I be speaking to you at all? Why would I have reached out to you privately? Why would I be trying to calmly and politely talk to you? You’re so fixated on the idea that anybody who disagrees with any aspect of your opinions is your enemy that you seem to have lost the ability to recognise people who are trying to talk and understand. That’s up to you. But when you’re wondering why more cis people don’t engage, this is why.