Yeah, I completely agree. DId I give the impression in anything I've ever written that I think this is a good thing? If so, then that couldn't be further from what I mean.

As I said to Jen, society at large is different from a school. And social issues should be treated very differently. What I'm advocating for here is that people spend more time coming together and trying to understadn each other, not separating themselves by their immutable characteristics.