Yep, couldn't agree more. And it's true, trans acrivists are doing the same thing, so are radical feminists. In each case, the people on the fringes of these movements for equality are driving the whole thing off the cliff.
What we need is more people who are willing to stand up to the disproportionate peer pressure these fringes are exerting and tell the truth. But sadly, there aren't many who will. Especially when doing so leaves them fearing for their jobs and/or reputations.