Yes, and just as that was truly changing, just as we were teaching men that it's okay to cry and talk about their feelings, just as homosexuality was reaching broad acceptance, just as traditional gender roles were finally being broken down in meaningful, lasting ways, along came the gender ideologies to tell a new generation of boys that if they "liked feminine things sometimes" they weren't men but "non-binary" or "demigender" or women.

To tell girls that if they didn't like the sexist gender roles being placed on them by society, if they didn't like wearing makeup or playing with dolls, or if they felt uncomfortable with they're newly-pubescent bodies (as pretty much every girl does for a while), they're actually men in the "wrong body."

They aren't embracing the parts that don't conform to old views of gender, they are literally chopping them off!!! They erase all trace of who they were behind new names and pronouns. I spoke to a trans man a few months ago who referred to the perfectly healthy female body "he" was born with as a developmental defect.

Every single person on Earth expresses femininity and masculinity in different proportions at different times. So what? Does that mean there are ~8 billion genders? The word, as you're attempting to use it, is meaningless. Or at best, is a synonym for "personality."