Yes!! Online culture is bizarrely toxic. I think it's just a domain where young men feel liike they can do and say what they want without consequences. WHY they want to to talk and behave like that is a mystery, but I get them in my comments too sometimes.
It's amazing how often they're completely at a loss if you show them some kindness while pointing out that their behaviour is unnecessary and that there's no need to fight. Most people are good deep down, but the internet makes it too easy to pretend otherwise😅