You are like the bazillionth woman I've heard say something like this. And don't get me wrong, I completely understand where you're coming from. I just think it's so sad that the entitled, misogynistic trans "activists" have done so much to damage the goodwill that most people feel/felt towards transsexual/transgender people.

Even sadder that when this problem is pointed out to them, they react by trying "transphobia."

The line that any disagreement is "hate" is so deeply ingrained (and they're so deep in their echo chamber) that I really don't think they can see how much damage they're doing to public perception.