What I find offensive Rob, is that virtue-signalling idiots like yourself are cheering them on as they demand access to female spaces under cover of the trans movement. What I find offensive is the idea that it's "anti-trans" to consider the needs of the people we've known as women for the entirety of human history until it became trendy to pretend they didn't really exist. What I find offensive is how little you care about the boundaries, safety and privacy of women.
Is that clear enough for you?
Yes, men assault women. I'm vehemently opposed to these men too. I even wrote about them here. But these men aren't being sent to female prisons. If they try to walk into a female changing room, nobody argues that it's bigoted to stop them. If anybody was arguing for this, believe me, I'd be far more outspoken about it than I have been about the problems with gender ideology.